Divorce has mighty effects on the children. They start blaming themselves for the divorce of their parents. The effects of divorce can remain even when the child grows into an independent individual and at that time, things become worse. As they grow, they might stop believing in any one or might stop respecting relationships. It is the duty of the parents to explain children that divorce was actually a solution to the problems faced by them and not a tragedy. Divorce can cause a lot of disturbance in the mental stability of the child, s/he might become short tempered or might not speak in necessary situations. For children coping with their parents divorce is quite difficult as they don't able to understand how should they react and what is happening.

Effects of divorce on children's future relationships are many. Some of them are discussed below:

1) Temper: One of the effects  on children and their future is that they become short tempered. Short temper becomes a part of the individual's behavior and he is always angry about something or the other

2) Vulnerable: The child feels vulnerable inside and outside. He feels he can be easily hurt and people can make fun of him or her whenever they want and that is why s/he tries to stay alone and avoids making friends

3) Doubt: Children become doubtful about everything and everyone. They stop trusting people who want to come into their life and want to be with them. They do this because they are doubtful that whatever happened with their parents would happen with them as well

4) Depressed: They become depressed and do not give proper time to their relationships nor do they put in efforts to keep the relationship intact

5) Possessive: Another effect of divorce is that they become over possessive about their partners and do not give them space. They try to cage people, they love; so that, they can not leave them.

Divorce is a wholesome package of miseries, sorrow and stress. Post divorce life is all together a different life with new responsibilities and if you have children then the job of a single parent also comes along. But this does not mean that you cannot find happiness in life. Your divorce happened for a good reason, you were not compatible with your spouse and there is nothing worst than spending your life with a person who does not fit in your compatibility scale. There is no point carrying the emotional baggage after your divorce. It will only make life worse for you. The best way to tackle a painful divorce is to shed the emotional baggage of guilt anger and disgust right after divorce and move on in life. You can make your after divorce life better. Take it as how happy your are post divorce than how unhappy you were when you were married. You got to understand this that divorce is process that is going to end not a crisis, so it gets really important to move out of the crisis mode before it starts affecting you. 

Emotions are the main culprit behind a grieving life. So, make sure to manage your emotion rather than letting your emotional baggage manage you. Once you are free from your emotional baggage , you can start taking care of the things that are best in interest for your children. You can consult with a child psychiatrist to understand the behavior of your children post-divorce and will help you deal with them. Bringing back happiness in their life will give you immense happiness . 

Life after divorce can be full of unexpected things, so you need to be prepared for any forth coming situation . And to do so you need to manage your finance as well. If your finance is intact then you can give better education to your children and a better life that they deserve.